If you’re considering booking a boudoir session but find yourself wondering what actually happens behind the scenes, you’re not alone. For many clients, especially first-timers, there’s a mix of excitement, nerves, and curiosity. So let’s demystify the process and walk you through exactly what to expect during your boudoir experience, from the moment you walk through the door to the final pose.
1. Warm Welcome & Consultation
Your boudoir session begins with a warm, judgment-free welcome. Whether we’ve met before or this is our first time connecting in person, we’ll spend the first few minutes chatting, reviewing your outfits, and going over your vision for the shoot. This time helps calm nerves and build trust. It’s important to me that you feel safe, seen, and celebrated.
2. Professional Hair & Makeup
Most sessions include professional hair and makeup, so you’ll feel pampered and camera-ready. Your artist will consult with you about your preferences, whether you’re into soft glam, a bold red lip, or something in between, and enhance your natural features while keeping your comfort top of mind. This part of the process also gives us more time to bond and ease into the day.
3. Outfit Changes & Styling
We’ll review the outfits you brought (or provided wardrobe options, if you choose to use the Client Closet), and I’ll help you choose the best combinations for your body, style, and the mood of the session. You’ll typically change into 2–4 outfits during your session, depending on your package and pace.
4. Guided Posing (No Experience Needed!)
Once we begin shooting, I’ll guide you every step of the way. You don’t need to know how to pose, I’ll demonstrate and coach you throughout. From sultry gazes to powerful stances, every pose is tailored to your body type, comfort level, and the energy you want to channel. Think of me as your cheerleader, hype woman, and creative director all rolled into one.
5. Plenty of Laughs & Empowering Moments
A boudoir session isn’t just about photos, it’s about feeling incredible. There are often moments of laughter, reflection, and pure joy. Many clients start out nervous and leave feeling powerful, beautiful, and more connected to themselves than ever before. You might be surprised at how comfortable and fun the experience turns out to be.
6. Wrap-Up & Next Steps
After we finish shooting, we’ll go over the next steps, what to expect when it comes to viewing your images, choosing your favorites, and selecting any prints or albums you want to create. You’ll leave with a new sense of confidence and self-love, and the anticipation of seeing your stunning images.
Final Thoughts
What really happens during a boudoir session? Magic. It’s more than a photoshoot, it’s an experience of self-discovery, empowerment, and celebration. If you’ve been thinking about booking a session but holding back because you’re unsure of what to expect, I promise: you’re in good hands. All you have to do is show up, we’ll take care of the rest.
