If you’ve ever thought about booking a boudoir session but felt those butterflies in your stomach, you’re not alone. Many clients tell me they were nervous at first, mostly because they weren’t sure what to expect. The truth? A boudoir session isn’t intimidating at all. It’s empowering, fun, and all about celebrating YOU. Here’s a behind-the-scenes look at what really happens during a boudoir shoot.
When you arrive, we don’t jump straight into shooting. We’ll spend a few minutes chatting, walking you through the space, and going over your outfits and ideas. This time helps you settle in and feel comfortable. I want you to feel like you’re hanging out with a friend who just happens to have a camera in hand.
Most boudoir sessions include professional hair and makeup so you feel pampered and photo-ready. Whether you prefer a natural glow or a bold, glam look, the artist will tailor your style to your preferences. This is your chance to relax, sip a drink, and get excited about your session.
We’ll go through the lingerie, outfits, and accessories you’ve brought along. I’ll help you decide what will photograph best and plan the flow of your session. From your favorite lingerie set to an oversized sweater, we’ll choose pieces that make you feel confident and comfortable.
Here’s the secret: you don’t need to know how to pose. That’s my job! I’ll guide you through every pose and expression, showing you exactly what to do with your hands, legs, and body. Along the way, I’ll hype you up (because you’re going to look incredible) and make sure you feel confident in every shot.
Boudoir isn’t about perfection, it’s about personality and empowerment. There will be laughter, music, and lots of cheering. You’ll probably surprise yourself with how quickly you relax and start having fun. Most clients tell me they leave feeling stronger, more confident, and even a little unstoppable.
After your session, we’ll set a time to reveal your images. This is when the magic really sinks in, you’ll get to see yourself in a whole new light. Whether you choose an album, wall art, or a private gallery, you’ll walk away with images that remind you of your beauty and power every time you see them.
A boudoir session isn’t scary, it’s a celebration. From the moment you walk in the door to the final reveal of your photos, my job is to create a safe, supportive space where you feel like the queen you are.
So, if you’ve been wondering what really happens during a boudoir session, the answer is simple: a day full of self-love, confidence, and unforgettable memories. ✨
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